In 2023, California's divorce rate was 7.45%, representing one of the lowest rates in the nation. This translates to approximately 7.5 divorces per 1,000 residents. However, divorces continue to occur, and understanding the difference between contested and uncontested divorce is crucial for anyone considering ending their marriage in California.
The team at Hopper Hopper & Strebe LLP understands that divorce is a life-changing event that requires legal guidance and compassionate support. Our experienced divorce attorneys have successfully guided clients through both contested and uncontested divorces, ensuring their rights and interests are protected while minimizing emotional and financial strain.
We combine decades of legal experience with a deep understanding of California family law, offering tailored solutions that consider your unique circumstances. Contact us today for a free consultation to understand your options and find the best path forward for your situation.
What Is the Difference Between Contested and Uncontested Divorces?
A contested divorce occurs when spouses disagree on one or more significant aspects of their separation. This could involve disputes over property division, child custody, spousal support, or other crucial matters.
In contrast, an uncontested divorce represents a more harmonious separation where both parties agree on all major issues. They've effectively worked out the details of their separation and need the court primarily to formalize their agreements.
The choice between contested and uncontested divorce significantly impacts the duration, cost, and emotional toll of the process. While uncontested divorces typically proceed smoothly with minimal court intervention, contested divorces often involve extensive legal proceedings, multiple court appearances, and potentially lengthy negotiations or trials.
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Common Reasons for Contested Divorce
Contested divorces often arise from complex circumstances that make mutual agreement challenging.
Financial Asset Division
When couples build their lives together, they often accumulate complex financial portfolios, including real estate, retirement accounts, investments, and business interests.
For instance, a Sacramento couple who's operated a family restaurant for 15 years may struggle with valuation methods and division of business assets.
Questions arise about how to handle joint investments, whether to sell shared properties or not, and how to divide retirement accounts fairly. These decisions become particularly challenging when one spouse manages most financial matters during the marriage.
Child Custody and Parenting Time

The emotional complexity of arranging children's lives after divorce often leads to contested proceedings. Parents must address numerous aspects of their children's upbringing, from daily schedules to long-term planning.
Consider a situation where one parent works in downtown Sacramento while the other commutes to the Bay Area — creating a workable custody schedule becomes intricate. Parents must also navigate decisions about schools, especially if they live in different districts, extracurricular activities, and healthcare choices.
Religious differences can further complicate matters, particularly when parents have divergent views on their children's spiritual upbringing.
Spousal Support Considerations
The determination of spousal support often becomes contentious, especially in marriages where one spouse's career takes precedence.
For example, if one spouse leaves their career to raise children or support the other's professional advancement, they may require financial support to regain economic independence.
Factors like the Sacramento job market, cost of living, and potential for future employment all influence these discussions. Health issues, age, and length of marriage also play crucial roles in support determinations.
Property and Debt Allocation
Beyond obvious assets like homes and cars, couples must address complex property division questions. This includes dealing with inheritance money commingled with marital funds, determining responsibility for student loan debt acquired during marriage, and dividing household items with both monetary and sentimental value.
The rising Sacramento real estate market can further complicate property division, especially when couples must decide whether to sell their home or arrange for one party to maintain it.
The Contested Divorce Process
Navigating a contested divorce in California can be complex and unpredictable. This guide outlines key stages from initial filing to final judgment, offering clarity and insight into what to expect.
Initial Filing Phase
This phase begins when one spouse files a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the Sacramento County Superior Court.
The filing spouse must ensure proper service of documents, including the Summons and Petition, to their spouse. The responding spouse then has 30 days to file their Response. During this period, either party can request temporary orders addressing immediate concerns like living arrangements, bill payments, and temporary custody schedules.
The court may schedule an initial status conference to establish preliminary deadlines and requirements.
Discovery Phase
Discovery represents a crucial information-gathering period where both parties must disclose all relevant financial and personal information. This includes completing Preliminary and Final Declarations of Disclosure, which detail assets, debts, income, and expenses.
Parties may use various discovery tools:
- Formal document requests for bank statements, tax returns, and property records
- Written interrogatories asking specific questions about finances, relationships, and parenting
- Depositions are where parties or witnesses answer questions under oath
- Subpoenas to third parties like employers or financial institutions
- Professional evaluations for business valuations or custody recommendations
Settlement Negotiation Phase

Even in contested cases, California courts encourage settlement attempts before trial.
This phase might include:
- Mandatory settlement conferences with a court settlement officer
- Private mediation sessions, particularly for custody disputes
- Attorney-led negotiations discussing compromise solutions
- Evaluation of settlement proposals and counter-proposals
- Drafting and reviewing potential settlement agreements
Pre-Trial Preparation
This critical phase requires your active participation. Your attorney will guide you through the process of gathering and organizing evidence, preparing for depositions, and strategizing for your best possible outcome in court.
- Organizing exhibits and evidence
- Preparing witness lists and testimony outlines
- Drafting trial briefs outlining legal arguments
- Developing presentation strategies
- Filing and responding to motions
- Creating demonstrative exhibits
- Scheduling expert witnesses
Trial Phase
This phase marks the actual court proceedings. It begins with the presentation of evidence and witness testimony from both sides. Each side's attorney presents their case, followed by cross-examination and rebuttal. Finally, closing arguments are delivered before the judge renders a verdict.
The trial itself involves a structured presentation of evidence:
- Opening statements outlining each party's position
- Testimony from parties and witnesses
- Cross-examination of opposing witnesses
- Presentation of documentary evidence
- Closing arguments
- Judge's decision (may take additional weeks)
Post-Trial Phase
Following the conclusion of the trial, the post-trial phase commences, characterized by the entry of the court's final judgment. This period encompasses the execution and enforcement of the judgment, as well as the consideration of any post-trial motions or appeals.
- Preparing formal judgment documents
- Reviewing and possibly objecting to proposed orders
- Implementing court orders
- Transferring assets per court order
- Establishing new custody arrangements
- Setting up support payment systems
Hopper Hopper & Strebe LLP — Your Dedicated Divorce Lawyers in Northern California
Understanding the differences between contested and uncontested divorce is crucial for making informed decisions about your future. Whether you're facing complex disputes or seeking an amicable separation, Hopper Hopper & Strebe offers the support you need to navigate this challenging time.
Our team of dedicated family law attorneys is ready to help you understand your options and choose the path that best serves your interests. With our proven track record and commitment to client success, we ensure you're never alone in this journey.
Contact us today to schedule your confidential consultation. Let us help you move forward with confidence and peace of mind.